Friday, July 10, 2009
Love is Patient, Day 1 cont...
Love Is Patient, Day 1
Journal: Did anything happen today to cause anger toward your husband? (What about your kids?) Where you tempted to think disapproving thoughts and to let them come out in words?
My morning for Day 1 started off with a bang...Mike has been asked to help out with some of the setup for VBS at Harvest and that was fine. This morning he told me that the setup time is now following church. This didn't sit well with me and I as far as the dare goes I was successful in not "saying" anything negative to him, but my attitude was all wrong. Actions speak louder than words, right? The Lord reminded me again just how selfish I am and when he gets home from work, I know that I need to ask his forgiveness for being so selfish.
As far as how I did with the girls on the dare, well considering they weren't with most of the day I did great. My parents met me at the library and dropped them off at lunch time, afterwards we ran some errands and they've been playing great together all afternoon. Praise God! But I wasn't perfect, I did react in anger a time or two when they were getting on each others nerves (not taking into consideration how tired they are), and therefore getting on my nerves. The Lord is really working on me with my short fuse and I know that as I yield to Him that He will allow me to improve in this area.
I am looking forward to tomorrow and seeing what is in store and I am going to keep on working on Dare #1 until I get it right. (It could be a while!)
Thursday, July 09, 2009
Make An Investment in YOUR Marriage...I DARE YOU!
Earlier this week, while talking to some of the girls in the mom's group on the phone, we discussed the study book we were doing and some feelings about it. After those phone calls I was feeling led to suggest changing our study book for the time being. I had decided last week that I would do the Love Dare book myself and Kathy was going to do it with me, but after praying about it for a couple days I felt a great peace about suggesting it as a replacement study book. Fast-forward to today in our Mom's Group Bible Study we decided to switch gears and do the Love Dare book instead.
I’m determined to get through the entire book, be completely transparent with myself, and to make an improvement in myself and in our marriage. Please pray for me, and the other mom's that are taking on this dare, and look for my Day 1 post tomorrow!
By the way, Fireproof came out on DVD a few months ago. Check it out with your spouse and take on the Love Dare yourself. I’d love to hear about your journey.
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
When life gives you lemons...
22 oz fresh lemon juice (about 7 large lemons)2 1/2 to 3 cups sugar
1 cup hot water
1 gallon cold water
strawberries (optional, but recommended)

(Fresh squeezed lemon juice can be frozen in a freezer safe container for up to 4 months! So get them while they're on sale and freeze the juice for when you need it!)
Tastes great if you add pieces of strawberries either to your glass of lemonade or to the entire pitcher of lemonade.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Grilled Potatoe Wedges
- 5 potatoes, peeled and halved
- 1/4 cup vegetable oil
- 2 tsp season salt
- 2 tsp garlic powder
- 1tsp onion powder
| 1. | Preheat grill for high heat. |
| 2. | Place potatoes in a large saucepan with enough lightly salted water to cover. Bring to a boil. Cook 15 minutes, or until tender but firm. |
| 3. | Drain potatoes, and pat dry. Coat thoroughly with vegetable oil and seasoned salt. |
| 4. | Place potatoes on the preheated grill. Cook approximately 20 minutes, turning periodically. |
COOK TIME 35 Min
READY IN 45 Min
Wednesday, May 06, 2009
Slow Cooker Texas Pulled Pork
* 1 teaspoon vegetable oil
* 1 (4 pound) pork shoulder roast
* 1 cup barbecue sauce
* 1/2 cup apple cider vinegar
* 1/2 cup chicken broth
* 1/4 cup light brown sugar
* 1 tablespoon prepared yellow mustard
* 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
* 1 tablespoon chili powder
* 1 extra large onion, chopped
* 2 large cloves garlic, crushed
* 1 1/2 teaspoons dried thyme
* 8 hamburger buns, split
* 2 tablespoons butter, or as needed
DIRECTIONS
2. Remove the roast from the slow cooker, and shred the meat using two forks. Return the shredded pork to the slow cooker, and stir the meat into the juices.
3. Spread the inside of both halves of hamburger buns with butter. Toast the buns, butter side down, in a skillet over medium heat until golden brown. Spoon pork into the toasted buns.
Note: The pork can also be cooked on Low for 10 to 12 hours.
PREP TIME: 15 Min
COOK TIME: 5 Hrs
Serves 8-10
Monday, April 27, 2009
Shepherd's Pie
5 pounds Russet potatoes, peeled and cut into chunks
1/2 to 3/4 cup milk (use more or less depending how thick you like your mashed potatoes)
1 egg, beaten
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil (EVOO)
2 pounds ground sirloin
1 can mixed veggies (or you can use a bag of frozen)
1 large onion, chopped
3 tablespoons flour
2 cups beef stock
1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
2 to 3 tablespoons chives, chopped
1 large onion, chopped
Yields: 6 servings
Preparation: Place the potatoes in a medium-size pot, cover them with cold water and bring to a boil. Salt the water and cook potatoes until fork tender, about 12-15 minutes. Drain the potatoes and allow them to cool slightly. Mash them with the milk then stir in the egg. Season with salt and fblack pepper and set aside.
While the potatoes are cooking, make the filling: Heat the olive oil in a large, deep skillet over medium-high heat until it shimmers. Add the meat and brown it well, about 5 minutes. Add the vegetables to meat, season with salt and pepper and cook until the vegetables are softened, 8-10 minutes. Sprinkle the flour around the pan, stir and cook for about 1 minute. Add the stock and bring up to a simmer to thicken the gravy, 3-4 minutes. Season the gravy with Worcestershire sauce, salt and pepper.
Turn broiler on and place rack in the middle of the oven.
Transfer the filling to a medium-size casserole or baking dish and top it with heaping spoonfuls of the horseradish mashed potatoes so they completely cover it. Brown the potatoes under the broiler, about 2 minutes, garnish with chives and serve.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Real Moms...Real Jeasus
This coming weekend is the Hearts at Home National Conference in Bloomington. I'm very excited about going this year and know that it will be a very informative, refreshing weekend. To gear up for the weekend, I’d like to welcome author and speaker, Jill Savage. Jill’s recent book Real Moms…Real Jesus, just released, and I wanted to ask her about her real mom moments..Jill, tell us a little bit about yourself and your family.
Tell us about your newest book Real Moms...Real Jesus?
There’s one verse in the Bible about Jesus that simply says “large crowds followed him everywhere he went.” Well, isn’t that the life of a mom? Large crowds follow her to the bathroom. They follow her to the kitchen. To the grocery store. She’s in high demand! And when Jesus lived on this earth, He was in high demand, too.
Why did you want to write this book?

What do you hope your readers will gain from this book?
What unique elements will the reader find in Real Moms…Real Jesus?
There are also questions at the end of the chapter for further consideration and suggested Bible reading in the book of Matthew. If the reader chooses to pursue the suggested reading, she will have read the book of Matthew completely by the end of the book!
This is a Hearts at Home book. What is Hearts at Home?
Any closing thoughts?
Thanks, Jill, for taking time out of your busy schedule to share your real mom, real Jesus moments with us.
You can purchase your own copy of Real Moms…Real Jesus by clicking here.
Friday, March 06, 2009
25 Random Things About Me
2. I hate spiders...it doesn't matter how big or small, I dislike them all...not in a box, or with a fox...
3. Sweet Peas are my favorite flowers.
4. I like to be the first person to open a jar of peanut butter so I can stick my finger in it.
5. When I go to sleep, I like to snuggle under the blankets, but I always have to have one foot off the side of the bed, out from under the covers.
6. I love going to zoos.
7. I could eat pizza every day of the week.
8. I've been up in a hot air balloon 4 times and think it's an awesome experience.
9. I attended three different grade schools growing up, all of which fed into the same high school, so I knew lots of people once I got to high school.
10. Grizzly Bears are my favorite animals and I would love to be able to see one in the wild.
11. I love Wranglers...it's a Jeep thing, you wouldn't understand.
12. I eat ketchup on my scrambled eggs.
13. My favorite color of Crayon in Brick Red, followed closely by Midnight Blue (I'm not even sure those are colors in the new boxes of Crayola Crayons though).
14. I used to have a pet cow named Sunshine.
15. My family is the most important thing in the world to me.
16. My friends follow a very close second to my family.
17. I wore glasses/contacts for about 25yrs (from 1st grade until I was almost 32yrs old)...then had LASIK and now have 20/10 vision and I don't miss my contacts and glasses at all.
18. I have my Associates Degree in Graphic Design, but my most rewarding job has been being a mother...also my toughest job.
19.White chocolate is my downfall.
20. My favorite TV show is LOST.
21. I'm a night owl...definitely not a morning person.
22. The sound of chalk or fingernails on a blackboard gives me chills.
23. I'm very thankful for my wonderful husband and cannot imagine life without him.
24. Someday I would love to take a cruise to either Alaska or Ireland.
25. I like regular Coke, not diet and diet Pepsi, not regular.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
A little Stampin' Up! fun...
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Stampin Up Ideas
Friday, November 07, 2008
Coupons.
(Thanks Ruth!)
Sunday, October 05, 2008
Hearts at Home Week | Day 5
Random Integer Generator
Here are your random numbers:
13
Entry #13 belonged to Rochelle! Congratulations Rochelle!
You get to choose which one of these three books you would like: The Complete Guide to Getting and Staying Organized by Karen Ehman, Facing Every Mom's Fears by Allie Pleiter, or Is There Really Sex After Kids by Jill Savage.
Oct 3-4, 2008 Grand Rapids, Michigan
Nov 7-8, 2008 Rochester, Minnesota
March 13-14, 2009 Bloomington, Illinois
hearts-at-home.org
Saturday, October 04, 2008
Hearts at Home Week | Day 4
Today is the last day to make your comments and be entered in to the drawing, so, with that being said, here's today's question...
Oct 3-4, 2008 Grand Rapids, Michigan
Nov 7-8, 2008 Rochester, Minnesota
March 13-14, 2009 Bloomington, Illinois
hearts-at-home.org
Friday, October 03, 2008
Hearts at Home Week | Day 3
Today's question:
Oct 3-4, 2008 Grand Rapids, Michigan
Nov 7-8, 2008 Rochester, Minnesota
March 13-14, 2009 Bloomington, Illinois
hearts-at-home.org
Thursday, October 02, 2008
Hearts at Home Week | Day 2

1. Growing up, did you ever see yourself as a mother – better yet, a professional mother? Please explain.
I had one goal in mind growing up…I wanted to be a music teacher. That’s how I envisioned my professional aspirations. I did see myself as a mother, but I felt that a teaching career would work well with motherhood (summers home, same schedule as school age children, etc)
2. Your organization’s purpose is to help mothers love their lives. Why is motherhood often looked down upon in today’s society?
I think we associate money with value. When a mother contributes to the family in a non-monetary way, we have wrongly assumed that the contribution isn’t as valuable as a monetary contribution.
3. Should a bright, intelligent, educated and professional young woman shy away from being a wife and mother if, in her heart, she desires to be?
We have the most educated generation of mothers we’ve ever had. We have more mothers with college degrees than any other preceding generation. That makes the decision to solely be a wife and mother an even harder decision to make. I believe however, that full-time motherhood is a valid career choice. A woman who desires to be at home for a season of time is not throwing her education away. As the founders of the former Mothers at Home group used to say, “She is simply applying her good mind and exceptional skills to the nurturing of her family.” And that is valuable!
4. How do you run an international ministry and still be the mother you’re instructing others to be?
15 years ago when Hearts at Home had our first mothering conference, we were expecting about 500 moms to attend. When 1100 mothers from 10 states showed up we realized that what we meant for a one-time event, God meant for the birth of a ministry. One of my early prayers was, “Lord, if this is going to be bigger than my vision, you have to send me many moms to make the work light.” God has answered that prayer over and over again. We have over 150 moms and about a dozen dads that serve the Hearts at Home ministry year-round. They each take one little piece of the puzzle and do their job well. I may be the most visible voice and face of the ministry, but home is still my priority.
5. What is the meaning of the name “Hearts at Home?”
There are so many good things that a mom can do---not just in the workplace, but also in the volunteer arenas. Before we know it, our heart is tugged in so many different directions. We encourage women to keep their heart at home---making their family their first priority---because we only have one chance to raise our kids.
6. Why must mothers make sure that their hearts are at home?
Most of us don’t realize just how fast our kids grow up. In the blink of an eye your kid moves from a Happy Meal to Value Meal #9! When you keep your heart at home, you make the most of this unique season of motherhood.
7. Does this mean you discourage mothers from working outside the home? How do you respond to those who do?
Hearts at Home makes no judgment call on those who work outside the home. We do, however, know that women who consider motherhood their profession need a cheerleader and that’s what we’re able to be for them. They also need quality resources that help them be the best wife and mother they can be. Honestly, though, most of the resources available through Hearts at Home would encourage any mom and we have a lot of working moms that attend our conference events and tap into our resources.
8. Why is a healthy marriage so important? In other words, why must you be a wife first and a mother second?
My husband and I are self-described as being married 25 years, 15 of them happily. That’s because we made a mistake in the early years that many couples make. We wrapped our lives around our children…and just about ruined our marriage. What we eventually learned as we sought out counseling to bring healing to our hurting relationship, was that the best gift we could give our children was a strong marriage. This gives our kids the stability they long for and assures us that our marriage has more in common than our children who will someday grow up and leave home. We’ve come to learn that taking intentional time to nurture and grow our marriage away from the children is the most loving act of parenting we can actually do.
9. How do you become the “intentional” mom that your family needs? What exactly does it mean to be intentional about motherhood?
Being intentional is about deliberately using the moments we are given with our children. It’s about being proactive rather than reactive. An intentional mom has a vision for her family and home environment and she pursues that with purpose and goals.
10. What’s one of the best gifts you’ve received from one of your children over the years?
It would have to be a picture of my teenage daughter with her arms spread wide and this message printed on the picture: “I am so grateful for all the years you have invested in my life. Thank you…for taking care of me when I was sick…for crying with me when I needed to cry…for loving me even when it was incredibly hard…for being patient with me when you probably wanted to yell at me…for spending time with me when I needed it most…for listening to me when I felt like no one could hear me…and for not giving up when times were hard.”
She gave that to me after an incredibly hard season of her teenage life. It made all the challenges of mothering in that season worth it!
11. What universal, unchanging piece of advice would you give to all mothers?
In the words of my dear friend Charlene Baumbich, “Don’t miss your kids…they’ll be gone before you know it!”
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Today's question:
Oct 3-4, 2008 Grand Rapids, Michigan
Nov 7-8, 2008 Rochester, Minnesota
March 13-14, 2009 Bloomington, Illinois
hearts-at-home.org
Wednesday, October 01, 2008
Hearts at Home Week | Day 1
October 3-4, 2008 Grand Rapids, Michigan
November 7-8, 2008 Rochester, Minnesota
March 13-14, 2009 Bloomington, Illinois
If you don’t live close enough to drive to a conference, and hopping on a plane isn’t an option, you can also order a Home Conference Packet which gives you the conference via CD.
Check out the Hearts at Home website today to find out all that Hearts at Home has to offer you!
Okay, all that being said, there's one more thing to tell you...for each person that leaves a comment on my blog (under any of the Hearts at Home posts this week) will be in the drawing for one of the books that is available at the conference. How cool is that? Each day this week I will be asking a question for you to answer and on October 5th I will be drawing one of those names and posting it here on the blog (Each day there is a new question for you to answer...that means you have 4 chances to win!) The winner will get to choose which of these three books she would like: The Complete Guide to Getting and Staying Organized by Karen Ehman, Facing Every Mom's Fears by Allie Pleiter, or Is There Really Sex After Kids by Jill Savage.
So, without further ado, here's today's question:

**please note - I don't know all my readers personally, so if you have any doubt, be sure to link with your e-mail address...and don't post anonymously otherwise it will be hard for you to win. I will be posting the winner's name here on the blog on Oct 5th, so be sure to check back!
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
FIREPROOF...Never Leave Your Partner Behind
Say "I DO!" to Fireproof, the much-anticipated new movie from the creators of Facing the Giants, opens in over 800 theaters around the United States this weekend. 95 of those locations are because churches, organizations and individuals have said, “I do” to purchasing at least 1000 tickets to bring it to their city.
Many churches have purchased blocks of tickets to give to their members, as well as to local firefighters and public safety personnel, so you'll probably be part of a big fun group. Get your tickets now. Remember prime movie times may be sold out, so you might need to be flexible on the time. When is the last time you attended a midnight showing? Maybe it's time for a late date.
Don’t wait! Act now and purchase your tickets for opening weekend. Go online today to buy tickets from your local theater to ensure you will be part of the opening weekend audience.
“Fireproof” - the Story
Regular arguments over jobs, finances, housework, and outside interests have readied them both to move on to something with more sparks. As the couple prepares to enter divorce proceedings, Caleb’s father challenges his son to commit to a 40-day experiment: The Love Dare. Wondering if it’s even worth the effort, Caleb agrees—for his father’s sake more than for his marriage. When Caleb discovers the book’s daily challenges are tied into his parents’ newfound faith, his already limited interest is further dampened.
But is it too late to fireproof his marriage? His job is to rescue others. Now Caleb Holt is ready to face his toughest job ever … rescuing his wife’s heart.
An action-packed love story, Fireproof will have audiences laughing, crying, and being pulled toward the edge of their seats as they are drawn into the world of a firefighter, his wife … and a marriage worth rescuing!
Friday, August 15, 2008
SRC | Weeks 10 thru whatever today is...
I found myself both encouraged and challenged by this book and would recommend it to anyone.
Son of a Witch by Gregory Maguire. Son of a Witch picks up a bit after Wicked ends, after the Wizard of Oz falls from power. As the title tells us, it follows the life of Elphaba's son, Liir, whom we were introduced to in the latter part of Wicked.
I'm only a little ways into it the book, but it unfortunately follows in Wicked's footsteps with not being easy to read. I'm not sure what it is about Maguire and the way he writes his books, but none of them are written in the same way and this "Oz" series just doesn't read well for me. Other than that, it seems to be an okay book, nothing spectacular as of yet.
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Outlander by Diana Gabaldon: I'm only a few chapters into it thus far, but enjoying it much more than I was Son of a Witch#14 Outlander by Diana Gabaldon: I picked this book up as a recommendation from several peeps as something that would take the place of the Twilight series that I had just finished. I was told that these books were similar, but written more for an adult audience. Well, I kept reading and reading and finally got to the end, but no signs of a vampire or werewolf...not sure why someone thought that this was similar to Twilight...what can I say, I have weird friends!
This story takes place around 1945 and follows the life of Claire, a war nurse, and Frank, her husband. Claire, while picking flowers at a local henge, is transported to 1743 (okay, yes, that part was a bit wonky) where she meets an ancestor of her husband, Captain Randall, who turns out to be nothing like her husband, other than in looks. Rescued from her captor, she is taken in by the Mackenzie clan where, due to circumstances that endanger her life, she is forced to marry young Jamie. Jamie is very endearing, but being married already...in 1945...for Claire this is not the ideal marriage. Over the coming days, Claire finds herself town between her past and her future.
Pay attention to the beginning of the book, even though it's kinda slow. This information will fit into the book later. Aside from the graphic scenes, both of violence and intimacy, this book draws you in. The characters are very likable...most of the time. The language in the book - some of the conversations written to sound like Scottish talk - is difficult to get used to, but it seems to be keeping my attention much better than my #14 book. I really enjoyed this book and had a hard time putting it down, even at 1:30 in the morning!
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Guess it's back to reading Son of a Witch now. Is the reading club over yet? I don't even know....does anyone know?#15 "Don't Make Me Count To Three!" by Ginger Plowman. This book is supposed to encourage and equip moms to reach pat the outward behavior of their children and dive deeply into the issues of the heart.
What a refreshing look at how to redirect children to examine the motivations of their hearts. This book teaches about discipline and reproof and how to balance the two. It also works through several situations and the proper way to deal with them. It examines the world's view -vs- a biblical view of spanking and the need for it. While this book might not be for everyone, and what parenting book is, there is much that you can take from this book even if you don't agree with everything. I really enjoyed reading it.
Still reading Son of a Witch...not really enjoying it too much thus far. I'm just not "getting into it".
#17 Dark Lover by JR Ward While on hiatus from reading Son of a Witch I read this book...Yes, another vampire book, seems to be a theme tor me this summer.
This book is the first book in the Black Dagger Brotherhood series, the story of Wrath, the vampire king. Ward has a little different take on the Vampire world that I really like. They are a different species that can't turn others to be their kind. They exist along side the humans without allowing knowledge of their species. Ward also creates the Lessening Society. This is a brilliant addition to her book because this society's goal is to eliminate the Vampires. So, there are real tensions and threats to the Vampire's existence that gives the story so much depth. The Brothers are...fun, sexy, interesting, and intelligent. I'm ready to read the next book now.
Still reading Son of a Witch...well, not really, it's just sitting there. I just picked up Beyond the Spiderwick Chronicles: A Giant Problem, so I plan on reading it right after I finish the next in the Black Dagger Brotherhood series, Lover Eternal. I'll have to get back to Son of a Witch when they're finished.
#17 Lover Eternal by JR Ward: This is the second book in the Black Dagger Brotherhood series. This is the story of Rhage, a vampire who has been cursed with a "beast" inside of him that makes him keep his temperament in check at all times, and Mary, a human who is struggling with cancer. Rhage falls for Mary very early on in the book and tries for what seems like forever to convince Mary of it...which gets a bit annoying at times, but understandable since she doesn't know what her future holds because of the cancer. This book gives you a bit more info on some of the others in the Brotherhood, as well as setting everything up nicely for the next book...which I'm off to see if they have at the library.
#18 Beyond the Spiderwick Chronicles: A Giant Problem by Holly Black and Tony DiTerlizzi: Our story begins where The Nixie's Song left off. Nick and Laurie are learning how to kill the giants before they destroy the entire state. Along the way, they capture an entertaining little creature and find that Taloa has left her pond in search of her sisters by herself. That being the least of their problems right now, Nick and Laurie must figure out how to get rid of the giants first. Without giving anything away, this book has a nice little twist at the end that will have you waiting for the final book in this series...for your kids to read, of course. :)
Saturday, August 09, 2008
SRC | Week 9
Friday, August 01, 2008
SRC | Week 8
Breaking Dawn was different from the first three books. The first difference is that this book is broken up into three books. The first book, told from Bella's point of view, contained the wedding and honeymoon. It moved very quickly, which is fine since it was the wedding and all, but annoying because I just couldn't really get into it. The first book does take a surprising turn before it ends though, so be prepared. The second book, written from Jacob's point of view, brought us a bit further into the story (can't say too much here without spoiling things...which apparently some of my reviews/summaries have done...sorry.) The second book slows things back down a bit, which is nice. Gives the story a little time to develop instead of feeling so rushed. The third book is back to Bella's point of view and to me seemed a bit more reminiscent of the previous three books in the series. I do think that Stephenie could have spent a bit more time on the book. I could have used a little less of how beautiful Edward was, how beautiful Bella was...this got annoying in the earlier books too though, so might just be me. Much of the book seemed to be filled with fluff to get us through to the next chapter and earlier books didn't seem that way.
A set of books I will be more than happy to let my daughters read when they are old enough. Would I say rush out and buy this one in particular, probably not, but borrow it from a friend or go to your local library and put your name on the wait list for it for sure.
Friday, July 25, 2008
SRC | Week 7
As the years tick by Lucrezia becomes less and less enthused about Bianca and eventually hires a hunter to kill her. But the hunter doesn’t kill her, bless his tender heart, he takes her deep into the woods instead and then he kills a deer and takes the heart back to Lucrezia as proof that the girl is dead. Meanwhile, Bianca falls into a deep sleep in the woods and is taken in by six unusual characters, who as you’ve undoubtedly guessed by now, are dwarves. But where is the seventh dwarf? The missing dwarf was the strange creature that had observed Vincente's discovery of the mirror (that he and the other dwarves had created) and had followed Vicente ever since. Eventually Bianca wakes up and slowly starts to see and comprehend the dwarves and the strange house in which she’s been staying. Saying much more about the plot might reveal too much of the ending. Let me just say that what happens in the last part of the book is similar to the Disney movie.
Overall I’d say this book is okay. I was disappointed because I wanted a new perspective on a familiar story but I felt like all I got was the same story dropped into a different time with a few different names. I thought there were some clever ideas such as the poisoned apple was actually from the Garden of Eden and the mirror being created by the dwarves. The characters bored me...I never learned anything about any of the characters that made me care about them or even dislike them and when it all ended I just felt like I hadn’t learned anything. Maybe I just missed what Maguire was getting at. If viewed as pure entertainment, the book's not bad. I didn't regret reading it, but compared to Maguire’s other works I’d say it’s way below Wicked.
Friday, July 18, 2008
SRC | Week 6
Friday, July 11, 2008
SRC | Week 5
The book starts out with a widow, Margarethe, and her two daughters, Ruth ~ a large, simple-minded girl, and Iris ~ a smart girl with plain looks, who are fleeing from their English country village after her husband's violent murder. They return to the town that Margarethe grew up in only to find that they have no relatives or home left there. In search of a place to stay, they find shelter in the home of a painter, Master Schoonmaker. The mother takes a job in his household doing chores and mixing paints, Ruth is asked to pick wild flowers for the him to paint and Iris is only to pose for him to paint in his paintings. After several months of living and working in the Master's home, Margarethe is offered a job in the home of a very wealthy man. Master doesn't want her to go and proposes to her, but she won't marry him because he is too poor and can offer nothing to her and her daughters (a glimpse into her scheming ways).
This new house is that of a prosperous merchant, Van den Meer, his wife, Henrika, and beautiful daughter, Clara, who is not allowed to leave the house for reasons we will only know at the end of the book. The Master is asked to paint a portrait of Clara with tulips, a beautiful flower with a beautiful red color that the father is trying to import, and he creates a masterpiece that he is afraid won't be able to repeat. The mother, pregnant, dies before giving birth (the reason for this will also be revealed later), and Margarethe soon manages to convince Van den Meer that the town will start talking if they don't get married, so they do. Clara is not happy about this situation at all. Margarethe does not wish to replace her mother, but does want the respect that goes along with being the wife and running the household. Clara, not being used to having to do anything and used to having everything given to her, refuses and thus Margarethe starts behaving with Clara as the stepmother we have grown to know and love in the fairytale, commanding Clara to clean and do other household chores. Clara has never had to do any of this and Iris takes pity on her, helps her, and teaches her how to do things. For her, Clara is now her sister and she finds her duty to take care of her as she takes care of Ruth.
Van den Meer is gone from the house often, either due to business or due to the fact that he doesn't want to be around Margarethe. Clara, upset by her mother's death and her father's outings, refuses leave the kitchen. She says she finds the silence and the work comforting, and she will soon ask people to call her Cinderella, or Cinder girl. Try as she might, Iris can't make her leave the house and behave like a normal child. (Thus making it just as much her fault for her "maid" situation, not completely the wicked step-mother's fault in the way we think it is.)
Van den Meer makes a huge business mistake and his work fails miserably and he falls into a depression so deep that he is not able to get out of bed. The family has basically lost everything and Margarethe is left to try to straighten out the situation. So Margarethe, who has become more cunning and more wicked than before, decides that she wants Clara to get married to a disgusting, but wealthy, merchant and will try to get Iris married to a prince who travels the country with his Aunt, the Queen, in search of a wife. Clara is forbidden by Margarethe to go to the ball, which is fine with her because she doesn't want to be seen out of the house. Iris does not give up though and finally convinces her that she should go. Clara agrees as long as she can keep her face covered with a veil.
The prince, upon meeting Iris, finds her enchanting and gives her his whole attention...until Clara arrives. As we all know, he falls immediately in love with Clara, but it is not the clock striking twelve that makes her leave as much as a fire that destroys the beautiful painting of her with the tulips the Master had borrowed to show the Queen. The shoe the prince brings to the house the following day is only an excuse to find the culprit of the fire, and that he does; he also discovers Clara. They finally get married and Clara is careful to send money and help for Iris and Ruth, her beloved sisters, who love her as much as she loves them. As for Margarethe, she is another story, but she's done enough damage not to deserve much respect. Clara has left it to Iris and Ruth to decide how to care for their mother.
Don't skip the prologue and the epilogue...many things are brought to light. Between Wicked and this book, Maguire has definitely been able to capture the "gray" areas of otherwise black and white children's stories.
Sunday, July 13th - Eeek! I'm so excited! I just pre-ordered Breaking Dawn by Stephenie Meyer while we were at Borders...you better believe I'll be there on August 1st at midnight to pick it up...I'll probably start reading it too! I'm so excited I could just pee!...okay, maybe not quite that excited, but quite happy. ;0p
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#9 Guess How Much I Love You by Sam McBratney: This is one of my favorite kids books (I won't be sharing too many of these since I'd have about 20 a day to write, but we just read this one again and I wanted to share). I bought this book after having our first daughter and we read it almost every night to her at bedtime. Although she's getting a bit too old to enjoy it like she used to, she still picks it out for her bedtime book now and then. Little Nutbrown Hare is telling his father, Big Nutbrown Hare, how much he loves him in a form of comparing it to the measure of actual things. Of course, being a typical male, daddy has to one-up his son and go one measure up from anything that Little Nutbrown Hare says. (LOL...just kidding about the typical male jab). Just before falling asleep, Little Nutbrown Hare amazes his Dad with the statement "I love you right up to the moon." Of course, Dad does one-up this too, but only after his son is sound asleep. Anita Jeram's illustrations for this book are beautiful and the colors are perfect for capturing the sleepy-time feel of this bedtime book. I give this book as a baby gift quite often and I highly recommend it to any parent.


